❄️❄️❄️ I put five ice cubes and peppermint oil in my vagina last night…❄️❄️❄️
and then I mounted my man who had no clue of what he was getting entered into….
Aren’t surprises fun.
They certainly can be.
And being playful in our sexing is required for gourmet experiences.
But sometimes, we enter our partners and selves alike into experiences that may take us to depths of meeting new aspects of self that were not anticipated.
Sometimes our surprises back fire and cause a shut down,
a turning away, or trigger trauma from past wounds that we had forgotten about or did not think to link to current moments of play or joy.
Sometimes we end up freezing up emotionally in the midst of an experience and find ourselves trapped in a land of desire,
but not knowing how to express it or what to do with it.
We humans are not only fickle,
And we often do not give ourselves enough compassion or grace to process our feelings and love on our wounds from a higher perspective,
we in turn beat ourselves up more,
and build up more barriers of shame and bitterness,
dropping our hearts deeper into a frozen state of hibernation,
so that we do not have to deal with the emotions that surge fear through us to the core.
Freezing up is never a good idea,
Emotional frostbite is a thing.
And it is a thing that is about as pleasant to move through as its physical twin.
It causes a numbing,
and massive constriction of our flow.
It prevents us from being flexible in love, life, thinking and feeling.
It locks us down to the creation of the life that we crave for.
And when we sit with emotional frostbite,
any amount of warmth burns and scares us.
But that is what the prescription is to heal it.
That, that we fear.
That. that burns,
that hurts to lean into.
It is the defrosting of our core.
It is the warming of our hearts,
and listening to our soul.
And it is activated with DESIRE.
But desire feels too provocative a thing when you are frozen.
Desire feels edgy, feels dangerous and makes us have to deal with our fears.
And fear stands firm in its cover of guilt and shame, jealousy even.
Fear yells at us to control the situation.
Fear tells us that we must have expectations.
Fear wraps us up in its belief of scarcity.
And it tells us that desire is evil.
It tells us to not listen to desire,
to not feel its warm embrace.
Fear wants us to remain “safe” and stay frozen.
Deny your soul.
Deny your heart.
Because that is where desire is birthed from.
It comes from your truth,
to heal you,
to guide you,
to defrost you.
and open you up to who you truly are.
And without it….
You will never know the wonders of this life.
You will never fully tap into your purpose.
You will never feel the depths of love ripping you open into surrender.
You will never see the light of God in your rapture,
and you will never live an expanded life.
Nothing is possible without desire.
But we must make sure that our desire is based in our heart,
not in our ego.
For the desire of our ego, may mask itself as our hearts,
may ride the very waves of our heartbeat even,
and make us feel as though we cannot exist without it,
but from this sort of desire we feel its need,
its need to control.
It needs to master us.
Its need to force.
to be hasty in the gaining of our desires.
And it does this through the emotions of worry, fear,
envy, judgement, bitterness and anxiety.
Where desire that comes from our heart,
does none of this.
It only defrosts our streams and rivers,
bares its truth through love, compassion and excitement,
releases us from our once thought eternal winter,
and renews our hunger to live.
Neither feel safe.
But desire from the heart is soul led.
It is what each of us must step into and embrace with eagerness if we are to ever know God.
Know life and love.
And heal our wounds.
It is through this desire that we learn to embody ourselves once again and trust in our hearts.
It is here in the warmth of our desire that we awaken to our worthiness and greatness.
And it is from this eruption of desire that KNOW OURSELVES.
But if you choose to ignore,
choose to hide behind the shame and guilt,
the excuses and your pride,
then you choose to remain in an eternal state of cryonics.
And you can bear hope to bring life back to yourself at some point, but in order to do it my love….
You must choose it.
You must choose to defrost and to allow yourself to feel again.
To feel everything.
And know that it is perfect.
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
Don’t let another moment pass living in a chronic state of frozen.
Limiting your life experience,
limiting your love and connection,
limiting your abundance.
You were born worthy of so much more than what you are allowing right now.
It is time that you say YES to you.
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