Success happens with in the small things.
The small things is what makes all the difference,
because the small things are actually BIG mother f-cking things.
Have you noticed this?
I sure have luv.
I am sure that you have noticed how you can focus in on all these BIG ass boulders and you can spend your life trying to push those damn boulders up the mountain you are climbing,
with little to no movement,
and THEN,
then you do thi sone little thing,
that seem’s like nothing really.
It’s a no-duh sorta thing even,
it’s a thing that you wonder,
“Why did I never think of that?”
and you do it,
and it MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE.
Yes success happens with in the small things.
Failure happens in the small things too.
You may understand this one a bit better.
Think about the relationships that you have had that have failed.
Was it big things or a pile up of small things that destroyed the intimacy,
the connection,
the trust,
even the love?
It was the small things , right?
Small things.
They seem so small
and so unimportant often.
They appear as though they should be easy to move through,
to avoid,
to conquer even.
And we most certainly should get over them quickly.
Small things are small hurdles after all.
And they are!
They are IF,
IF….
we let them be just that,
and we are proactive about discovering them,
and doing whatever it is that we need,
to clear the small hurdle.
Often this means,
small actions.
And in the land of success,
and moving those boulders with ease,
you have to be willing to look into things that are in your shadow,
into things that you may already be doing, ‘but are not doing where,
with whom,
or exactly how you need to be doing them.
These sort of things, are the things that can take you from zero to 60 in under a minute flat.
These sort of things,
can make or break you.
The issue always come’s back to realization of them,
and how we choose to perceive them.
It comes back to ego.
It comes back to heart.
It comes back to alignment.
Which means…..
What feels good,
and yet pushes your comfort zone.
The answer though is always in it feeling good.
Anything that does not feel good will create a low vibe in you and create chaos and destruction.
So NEVER….
NEVER EVER do that which you “think” you should do for anyone else, if it makes you feel bad in shape.
Especially if it scares you ass it may be dangerous,
it may cause some emotional or psychological issue within you, such as shame. Or it leaves you with a feeling of bitterness or fear of loss if you don’t do it.
This is not following your joy.
This is not alignment.
This is not jumping over a small hurdle to some success of moving that boulder up the mountain.
NO.
It most certainly is not.
Instead this sort of pushing through will add other boulders to your process and prevent you from success.
So put simple,
Just don’t do it.
It is okay to be selfish and say no to something or someone,
as saying now is saying f-ck yes,
to ourselves.
And being a f-ck yes to yourself will keep you high vibing!
Guess what luv,
saying yes to yourself at all cost,
is one of the most important small things you can do too.
It is the one small things that is the BIGGEST thing you can ever do to get that boulder up the mountain with ease.
But it will take courage.
It will take compassion for self first.
It will take passion,
and it will take a hell of a lot of self- love.
But YOU ARE WORTH it.
You are!
So focus in on the small things that will make all the difference today.
Focus in on the self-love that you have been denying yourself.
Focus in on the things that make you feel high vibe, make you laugh, make you smile.
Focus in on the small things as they are not small at all,
they are the BIG things.
And your success is going to totally rock out of the ethers because of these things.
Just say yes.
Say YES…
TO YOU.
And As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
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