I remember the days (it would have been 1996 to be exact) that my husband then and I were working our asses off with a financial service company. Our goal income was to become $100k earners. This was the place everyone wanted to get to. It was the starting point of the lap of luxury.
We looked at the six figure earners in the company with awe.
Their houses were gorgeous.
They drove the BMW’s, the Mercedes.
Their kids went to the best schools.
They went on multiple trips every year to tropical destinations.
They had freedom in their time.
They wore top quality clothes and accessories.
They were happy.
They had it all going for them.
$100k was so impressive.
$100k was where we wanted to be.
There were hardly any worries at this mark.
Here we were a young couple with a baby and another one on the way. Working three jobs between us. Our income was less that $24k a year combined.
We were on government funded health care.
We were getting WIC for help with food and nutrition.
We relied on the help and support of our families just to get by.
But we had a dream.
The dream was $100k.
This was 1996.
The red carpet does not roll out on $100k anymore.
It did not even back then.
But at least it was a starting point to seeing the red carpet.
At least it showed some material rewards of living a life that was freer than most.
Today, 100k is NOTHING.
If you google median household income for the United States you will come up with, $59,000.
If you look a bit further you will see that the average person makes between $27k and $41k.
You are considered middle class in the USA if you make $42k to $125k.
ONLY 20% of Americans make $100k or more.
Back in the day, when this number seemed so impressive to me and it was what I strived for but never could achieve, I found myself believing that life would be so much better at 100k than it was where ever I was at.
Flash forward to 2018.
Now I am a single woman who makes far more than $100k a year. I run my own business. I raise my children. I travel to tropical destinations. I have shoes that cost more than my summer power bill, my hair cost’s the average mortgage payment.
I don’t think twice about spending a few hundred dollars on what seem’s like nothing.
The ease I use to spend $5.00 with is now how I spend thousands.
Money just flows through me you could say.
My eye is not set on multi six figures, but on multi seven figures.
My income grows expansively each year.
And my time expands with it.
In 1996 we worked three jobs to make ends meet plus borrowed from our parents. I spent hours each day stressing over every little dime. I spent hours on the phone doing cold calls, studying and looking for the next thing I needed to do in hopes that it would bring us closer to the 100k mark.
None of it did.
Not for lack of effort.
Not for lack of opportunity or company.
Not for lack of understanding the system or product.
No the thing I was lacking back then was EASE.
The thing I was lacking back then was BELIEF.
The thing I was lacking back then was a MONEY MINDSET,
the habit of money just flowing effortlessly to me.
I spent the next 15+ years dancing around these things.
Ignoring the truth of abundance creation.
Then it just happened.
It clicked one day,
and the next month my income went from a $5,000 a month habit to a $13,000 a month habit.
I did NOTHING different.
I actually “worked” less.
The money just showed up.
I still don’t really know.
It just does.
Every month, it just shows up.
And increases itself.
The more I just RELAX.
The more I tap into saying YES to my SOUL.
The more I FOLLOW MY BLISS.
The more I am just authentically ME.
The more I PLAY.
My money habit has changed.
I no longer get up and look at my bank account in dread,
I look with excitement.
I no longer say, ” Mommy cannot afford that.”
I answer from a place of truth of if I think my child needs or should have something, not fearing money.
I no longer say, ” I wish I could….”
Instead I just DO.
I no longer put in 45 to 80 hour weeks with my work.
I “work” about 8 to 10 hours at best.
I do less in office time for the month than I use to do in a week.
INSTEAD, I play.
I enjoy life.
I do the things my SOUL calls me to do, and when I do these things, my income GROWS.
God SUPPORTS my SOUL’s desires with ABUNDANCE.
I now look at that $100k mark I longed for back in 1996 and laugh.
The red carpet most certainly does not roll out at 100k.
It is not even the threshold of luxury.
It might be “getting by” but it is not the be all end all.
And if I had to sell my SOUL’s desires to have this 100k I would say F-CK NO!
If I had to give up the life that I have created today for it,
I would say F-CK NO!
Imagine living a life where your soul’s desires lead you to more abundance?
Imagine a life where you are so in alignment to your BLISS that your life expression is ENOUGH to bring you everything that you ever wanted.
How would this feel?
Who/what would you be or do?
This is what we were born for.
Not to survive the day or week.
Not to live for the weekends and our 2 weeks of holiday.
No that is not f-cking living.
We were not born to sacrifice our lives,
our orgasm or joy,
for GETTING BY.
We were not born to sacrifice them at all!
God is a glorious and abundant SOURCE.
Wanting for your abundance.
How can you CLAIM to be a child of God,
and think so little of yourself?
I know that it is scary as f-ck to think you may be something GREAT.
I know that it takes a massive sh*t storm of COURAGE to go into the land of abundance.
I know that you have been told it is not possible.
For a million and one great/not so great reason’s.
The truth baby,
is that you have been lied to your entire f-cking life.
You have a GIFT to give the Mother F-cking World.
God is calling you to action,
and the time to act is NOW.
All you have to do is SURRENDER to your FLOW.
All you have to do is SAY F-CK YES! To Yourself.
SO what the f-ck are you waiting for?
THIS is your f-cking invitation.
Don’t tell me you can’t because you don’t know where to start.
Because you don’t have the education.
Or any other thing.
You were born for THIS SHIT.
SO get off your scaredy cat ass and CLAIM YOUR LIFE.
I love you.
Stop Existing & Start Living
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