No One Gives A Sh*t About Your Troubles.

No one really cares if you succeed or not.

No one really gives a rat’s rear end if you pay your bills or not.

No one really ultimately gives a shit.

How do I know this is true?

Well think about it…

Your friend tells you about their troubles,

the man next door shares about his job loss,

the woman at the school shares she has cancer,

your aunt says that she is terminal,

Your kid says that they are stressed about this or that,

your buddy at work get’s canned.

Sad but true.

These events happen every day.

You hear about them,

and you say,

OMG! I am so sorry.

I will pray for you.

You ask what you can do.

You feel bad for a few moments or even revisit the feeling here and there through out the day,

but at the end of the day,

you sit down on your couch,

you snuggle with your kids or your spouse,

or crash alone,

you watch whatever series on TV that you are caught up in,

and you ignore the miseries of others.

Right?

So why think that anyone else is doing something different when you share your sob stories.

the reality is that no one really cares if you succeed.

And to top it off,

almost everyone will eat away at your

TIME

ENERGY

MONEY

HEART

and whatever else they can absorb from you in the process.

Your friends,

Your family,

and any one that you allow too,

will step into your life and enjoy all that you have to give,

and keep taking from you until you say no,

or drop from exhaustion.

So why do so many of us, ‘find ourselves wrapped up in other people’s drama, if this is true?

Why do we allow for others to just leach off of us,

if at the end of the day it does not really matter?

Why do we extend ourselves to the point of breaking in some fashion, if no one really gives a shit?

Now I know that this may seem a little pessimistic here.

And I am not saying that we should not help.

That we should not ask for help.

What I am wanting to do is bring attention to the harsh reality of being human and living in a world of fellow humans.

We are all greedy mother f-ckers.

We want what we want and we want it for ourselves.

Even when we are “helping another” it is for ourselves.

It is most likely our ego,

wanting a pat on the back in some fashion,

even if it is just from ourselves to say, ” Yeah, I am a good person.”

Here is the reality,

here is the thought behind this share,

so often,

this aspect of our ego’s that desires to be just that,

“A good person,”

will lead us down the path of filling up our schedules with other peoples business.

The business that leads us to no where land.

The business that takes us into stress,

into chaos, and misery.

Worry and doubt.

The business that if we get real with ourselves,

we are stepping into because of our own fear of moving forward.

And so we fiddle around in this or that,

being a good person.

Taking the short term payout,

of feeling good about ourselves,

all the while,

denying our dreams.

When we allow others to dictate,

to control,

and to take priority on our schedules.

and in our lives,

our thoughts,

we hand over our power to them .

And we in essence say,

” I am sure that you will put me before you and do what is in my best good.”

We say,

” I have weak or no boundaries.’

” I do not value my own time or energy.”

” I need a reason to be a victim.”

And we do these things,

because yes we want to be good people.

We want to be liked.

We want to help others.

We feel lead to do them.

All great reasons.

However, all ego based.

And these ego based reason.

will NEVER lead us to the results in our lives that we desire.

They will only lead us to something other than success.

And that would be FAILURE.

And we will continue to experience this as long as we over give of ourselves based in ego.

If you want to claim that F-ck Yes Life.

If you want to build a multi-six or seven figure business.

If you want to have a phenomenal relationship.

Or any other dream or goal,

then you have to stop f-cking around.

And you have to make YOU #1.

Because no one else on this planet is going to,

and nor should they.

It is high time that you go do what you need to do,

to become whom you need to become.

Stop making excuses by getting caught up in everyone’s else’s live’s,

INSTEAD get caught up in your own.

Say YES to the most important person in your life.

YOU.

And as always,

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