I am so f-cking grateful.
Are You ⁉️⁉️
I sure the f-ck am.
Today I was driving home from the furniture store where I was buying a new couch for my front room plus bedroom furniture for my munchkins jungle themed room that if I can swing will look like a mini Rainforest Cafe,
And as I was driving I found myself in total gratitude for so many things.
I also found myself laughing out loud,
alone in my car,
over how crazy my year has been.
I mean really f-cking crazy.
Anyone who has been following me know’s the tales of this year but if you are new to the story line,
LET ME CATCH YOU UP…..
Started the year tripling my income after coming out of 2017 with massive emotional stress of figuring out how best to support my aging mom with dementia and all that comes with that.
Then entered the month of love (February) with my heart getting crushed from a man I never thought could ever take me to the low’s that he did in saying good bye abruptly.
Turned around and got my heart and body crushed by my other main man ( as you may have figured out, I am a polyamorous sorta girl on some days or years, and these two gents were my two leading men).
Had a pushed move into a new home, which I manifested in less than three days.
Found myself in a new neighborhood.
New home.
72 hours after a shocking experience.
Then had to deal with a summer of custody issues,
legal battles.
And had to buy a new car.
Furnish a home.
Heal my body.
Stay afloat.
And keep on coaching my beloved clients.
In the process of all of this,
my three eldest children ( age 23, 21 and 19) who were living in Maui moved home and needed to stay with me.
My eldest daughter conceived her first baby while in Maui,
So through all of this,
walking my baby girl through pregnancy as well.
Friendships have been tested.
Intimate relationships have been tested,
some new ones have been birthed,
some old one’s have been reignited in different ways.
And at the end of this day,
I find myself sitting here at my new breakfast nook table,
with my house under construction,
furniture being delivered tomorrow,
my baby boys coming home to me tomorrow,
my house not upside down,
but merging with the energy that I want.
I find my romantic life,
not healed or longing for what was,
but ignited to what can be.
And excited about the souls that have entered my world.
I find myself looking at my family,
as it shrinks in one way,
and expands in another.
Some children move out,
some are here,
some come and go according to a schedule that just is right and best for them and the situation,
while a grand baby ( a baby boy 😊) grows in my daughters womb.
I look at my business,
in its ebbs and flows of this year,
that impress and scare me.
Not because of a low,
but because the low is far higher than my high of last year. 🔥🔥🔥
I look at my life.
I look at my life.
Awe..
Yes in awe.
And my eye’s tear up.
I still feel all of the pain,
all of the trauma.
There is still much to heal.
Much to let go of.
And I SMILE.
In gratitude.
I sit here.
Knowing how f-cking blessed I am.
In gratitude I sit here.
Because sometimes the path to something better,
is painful beyond measure.
Sometimes the path to what we truly desire,
Is birthed on a road of loss and turbulence.
Sometimes the things that will bring us fully into who we are meant to be,
only come about because we had to grow ourselves through the storm that we were lost in.
Sometimes,
Yes, sometimes….
(and so it is in life, that the sometimes is actually most of the time.)
But you know what makes it all better?
You know what can set one out from the crowd?
You know what keeps you in alignment to all that you want,
all that you desire,
all that you know is on the other side?
GRATITUDE.
#1 KEY SECRET to manifesting miracles.
Living a happy life.
Being turned on.
And having it all, even in the storm.
IS GRATITUDE.
I had gratitude the morning I looked in the bank and my account had $32k in it – OVER NIGHT.
I had the same gratitude when the man I was deeply in love with said his goodbyes.
I had the same gratitude when my partner physically assaulted me.
I had gratitude when I paid the attorney.
I had gratitude when an old lover said he wanted to see a smile on my face.
I had gratitude when a new lover shared his heart with me.
I had gratitude when a dear friend told me I am the reason he is alive.
I had gratitude when my friend screamed in her pain at me.
I had gratitude when my daughter told me I was going to be a grandma.
And I had gratitude as I crumbled under the stress.
As I looked in my kindergartner’s eye’s as he screamed how he hated me, when I told him he had to change schools.
And so many more moments over this year.
GRATITUDE.
I am f-cking grateful.
Are you?
I encourage you to take a moment RIGHT NOW,
write down 20 things that you are grateful for.
Read them 3x.
and then repeat this process every morning and every night for 30 days.
See what manifests in your life.
See how you feel about your life.
And as always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
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