This was a question that I posed to myself this weekend as I moved through some self-inquiry around my current blockages to to my desires.
Yes we all have blockages.
No matter who we are, we are still human and we fall prey to our ego’s, our fear, our doubt and the patterns and programs that we have lived thus far in this life.
The difference between so many people is not that some have privileged lives and others don’t.
It is not that some are smarter, better educated or better looking than others.
The one difference that makes ALL the difference is if we stand up to the CALL OF OUR WORTHINESS.
I often ask my clients to share a brag with me in their coaching appointments. I ask them to tell me something that makes them in AWE of themselves.
And the response is normally,
” Wow, this is strange. I don’t know what to say”
I watch them squirm.
I watch as they readjust their legs, try and get centered on the chair.
Look any direction but upward or into my eye’s.
I watch their face become flushed, their chest turn red.
So many little things happen as they start to grasp that the request is real.
F-CK YES!!!!! I want to know what you are PROUD of.
I want you to CLAIM IT.
CALL IT IN DAMN IT!!!!!
How do we ever expect to have anything that we are not calling in with passion, certainty and turn on.
You have to BELIEVE that you are WORTH it and the thing about worthiness is that we are consistently told that we are not worthy. That instead we are guilty. We should feel shame for this or that and all of our ancestors shit too.
Just pile on the bullshit.
Whatever you do,
DO NOT BELIEVE that God wants you BLESSED.
Our world and teachings have created a bunch of believers in God NOT FAVORING US,
We are repeatedly told not to think to much of ourselves.
To not own our power.
To not shine bringht.
Well ONLY do these things in the way that are socially acceptable.
Not the way that your soul calls you too.
The problem with this idea is that anytime we stop listening to our soul and try and follow anything other, we step out of alignment and favor with God’s desire for our life.
We say no to our WORTHINESS.
We prevent ourselves from STEPPING INTO OUR GREATNESS.
and no duh,
this my love is the reason you are not living the F-ck YES! Life that you claim you want so badly.
It is because you are attempting to live YOUR F-CK YES! Life according to someone else’s beliefs, desires, boundaries, ideas and blockages.
How are you ever going to CLAIM YOUR Life if you are ALWAYS living through someone else’s?
Now you may say,
“Kendal, I don’t do that.”
” I live for me and me alone. ”
” I know my worth. I know who I am. I know what I desire.”
” I believe that I am in God’s favor.”
I call bullshit to that statement,
and here is why…..
Because if you REALLY did all of these things then your life experience would be different.
The life that is showing up in your daily experience is the life that YOU and ONLY YOU are MANIFESTING in your HEART AND MIND.
So if you want to have that F-ck YES! Life then you need to start FEELING and THINKING about it ASAP like your Motherf-cking Life depended on it, BECAUSE it does!!!!!
And it all starts with your idea’s, beliefs around WORTHINESS.
It is not good enough to say that you know you are worthy.
It is not good enough to put in the actions to prove that you are worthy.
It is not good enough to examine why you are worthy.
The ONLY thing that matters is CLAIMING IT.
UNDERSTAND love that you were born worthy.
You don’t have to act some special way,
look some way,
go to some special training,
or be this or that.
YOU DO NOT!!!!!!
( I am screaming this at you now)
YOU MOST CERTAINLY DO NOT have to PROVE your worthiness.
Just ACCEPT it.
That is all God wants you to do,
is to step into your power by accepting your birth right and living up to your worthiness.
If you strive to live up to your worthiness, you WILL ALWAYS….
do the right things,
and live a F-ck YES! Life.
Baby you born for greatness!!!!!!
Just ACCEPT it.
And as always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
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