The reason you will never have the relationships,
the lifestyle, the money or anything else that you really want is because your f-cking scared to death to call it in.
to ask for it.
To set the stage for it.
Your f-cking scared to death,
that if you actually just let it rip,
that the world would run away from you and that you would loose all that you have,
and having what you have is better than not having anything at all,
even though it is a long shot from what your soul desires.
Isn’t that right Baby?
So you sit there in your suffering.
In your fear of making changes,
taking steps,
and sharing your heart and soul.
The comforts of your dis-satisfaction and smallness with life,
is something that you cannot seem to let go of.
And THIS,
This is the THING,
that will will prevent you every God damn day from having what you really want in your:
Finances
Career
Relationships
Sex
Health
Lifestyle
Faith
This morning I sat down to checked into my email, like I do every morning around 10am. My phone had been popping off with text messages from five old lovers and I questioned what the heck was going on in my energy to call in all this attention from relationships of the past.
I questioned if I was stepping down in my vibe?
I questioned if I was feeling un-seen, unloved or something else?
Was I simply needing attention?
Or was I getting so TURNED ON TO LIFE that my vibe was magnetizing and calling in those who desired the turn on as well?
Who need the feminine creative flow and surrender to take them to that level of depth within themselves to manifest a life that they want more than what they have within the comforts of the now.
As I have been sitting here analyzing these messages,
these men, and all the emotion and feelings that come up for me, I see many things.
To start with my judgments.
My fears.
My patterns.
My love that I hold for each of them still today.
And all of these things play a role in my lessons.
And in who I have become.
In gratitude and with the help of each of these gentlemen.
SO as I sit here and look at what the potential message is,
I see that there are some factors to what I am needing in my current life that these men could fill for me,
However, the question comes,
Do I open an old door that did not work back then and try again or do I keep it shut?
It comes down to my current needs, desires and boundaries.
In this particular case I will focus in on my boundaries as boundaries are something that MUST be developed, reevaluated and adjusted often. What is a boundary in one case may not be in another and as we learn and grow,
as we come more into who we really are and get into greater alignment with our soul,
our boundaries change.
Boundaries are part of CALLING IN what we want into our lives.
Without healthy boundaries, we never gain the life that we really want. Instead we push it away from us in one way or another.
You know what I am speaking of,
Don’t you?
You are a doormat.
The go to person, who never feels appreciated,
just used.
This is boundary issue.
You are the center of attention, always.
You have no space.
You are fearful of saying no,
for whatever reason.
So you are fatigued and worn out emotionally, mentally and physically.
This is a boundary issue.
You feel alone.
You look around you and you have no real relationships.
You hate people, because in your view, “they are all stupid.”
So you sacrifice relationship for the most part to avoid the drama of others.
This is a boundary issue.
If it is going to be, it is up to me.
You cannot rely on anyone but yourself.
You don’t even want to.
So you keep things nice and tidy,
limited relationships, outings or anything.
And you play within your own means,
never asking for shit.
This is a boundary issue.
You expect that others should just do/act/love/need as you do.
You think that by always doing what is needed for another,
always making yourself available,
and being a yes, is good.
will get you what you want.
This is a boundary issue.
You don’t think that boundaries are that important.
You think that others need to just relax and chill.
Stop being so serious.
And you don’t see yourself over stepping,
getting shocked when someone claims you did.
This is a boundary issue.
To name a few.
We are all in need of understanding our boundaries and learning how to play within the multiple relationships of our lives, boundaries as well.
But the tale of today,
is to make you aware that BOUNDARIES are a vital part of your manifestation process.
It is important for you to explore what you are needing, wanting and feel good about in any given situation.
And here is the real kicker….
If you feel uncertain,
negative,
like you want to say no,
have fear, doubt or some other ill sensation or emotion,
then what you need to get right with is this:
THAT IS YOUR SOUL SAYING F-CK NO!!!!!
So Listen Damn It.
If you want to create that #freedombasedlife that #fuckyeslifestlye then you have to HONOR your boundaries.
You will NEVER call in what you want to manifest.
You will NEVER vibrate at the frequency that you want or need to have the life that you desire, as long as you are saying yes when you are actually a
F-CK NO!!!!
What will I do with these five old lovers?
I will listen to my soul.
That is what I will do.
Each man presents a different boundary to set,
to feel into,
to learn more about myself with.
Each man is here offering me an opportunity to get deeper into SOUL ALIGNMENT.
And so I will.
That is what I will do.
How about you?
What will you do with the boundary lessons offered you today?
And as always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
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