👉👉👉CAN A MAN BE THE BEST WEIGHT MANAGEMENT SYSTEM, SLEEP AGENT AND STRESS REDUCER OUT THERE?
The right man certainly can be.🤯
Today I speak to all the 👑queens out there who look in the mirror, do those little sidewards poses sucking in your tummies, checkin’ out how the booty looks in those pants, if the “girls” are perky looking today or if you need to grab the extra support bra. How your eyes look. Are you needing extra concealer, are the lines, soft wrinkles and exhaustion from life showing up to boldly or…💃💃💃
Today I am sharing a revelation with you that I have witnessed over the course of time in different ways in my own personal life and with friends and clients alike.
But when I tell you that from a VERY personal and real level, I have never been through such a beautiful transformation as the one that I am in currently in and it all stems from the love of the right man. Now, don’t get me wrong here…
it’s not actually his action of love that is doing anything.
Its not a massive amount of sex.
It’s not really anything other than I can put down all my armour with him and surrender.
Did you catch that big scary word that most queens do not like to speak outloud?
Lay down our armour?🦸♀️
Put down the shields and sword?⚔️
Trust the MF masculine?
I know, I have gone off the deep end for some of you ladies out there. In todays time when we women are able to be self-sufficent and not need relationship, just have the sex we want, when we want and live our lives without the bartering with a man, the concept of surrendering to the masculine seems shear ludicrous and crazy.
I get it.
But are you fulfilled?
Sure you may believe that you are.
You got the career, the kids, the house, the money, the “freedom” but where do you allow yourself to be held?
Where do you allow your softness as the feminine to be revealed?
And if you are a coupled queen, do you truly let your king shine as a man or do you constantly overthrow his throne with your fear of being controlled by him?
Do you in essence cuckold your man?😲🤔🤯
You “give him sex” but you do not actually receive him or let him receive you?
Coupled or single,
What we desire in a relationship on both sides of the coin is connection.
Put simply connection DOES NOT come from two physical bodies engaging in sex or physical touch.
Connection comes from emotional bonding and trust.
Connection comes from being able to embody one’s self with deep presence and thus can actually feel at an emotional and energetic level their partner.
They are willing to reveal themselves fully.
They are willing to be seen authentically.
They are willing to be naked in every way with their lover.
These things can NEVER be achieved with our armour up.
These things cannot happen without surrender from our deepest heart center with our lover.
And as long as we choose to uphold that emotional/energetic armour in our sexing, in our relationships, with our intimacy we will also bear the effects of the armour which are actual weight of the physical body.
Stress of the mind.
Emotional overload and imbalances.
We will not be able to lay our heads down and truly rest.
Because the weight of life,
the guarding of our hearts,
and the exhaustion of us “acting out a role for survival” will only create restlessness of our souls.
When we enter a soulmate relationship,
a union with our true significant other we have zero desire to hold onto our swords and weapons. We do not want barriers to our heart.
👊👊👊We want UNION.
Zero space between.
And when we truly enter a relationship of this divine nature we also reap the rewards here in the physical if we are willing to surrender to this sort of depth and authentic connection in love.
WE STAND NAKED IN EVERY WAY BEFORE OUR SOULMATE.
And here we find our truest freedom.
Our most unbound love.
We discover who we really are,
and we open ourselves to him.
And he as a heart centered man,
strong in his masculine and purpose driven in his life understands that the way he penetrates your heart as his queen is also how he penetrates his world.
He must lean fully into your gates in love and trust of the feminine or he his lack of surrender will be felt and you will not be able to trust him.
However you my dear queen must remember that it is a two way street ALWAYS.
If you as a woman refuse to trust yourself,
if you refuse to get out of your mind space,
If you refuse to speak your truth,
if you refuse to take responsibility for your emotions, your orgasms, your choices, your triggers and your fear,
then he cannot lean into your gates in trust.
A king cannot lead his queen to the most delicious moments of connection and intimacy if his queen does not respect him in his masculine. And a queen can never respect a king who does not know whom he is and who has healthy boundaries and a stable heart center.
So can a man be the best weight management system, sleep agent and stress reducer out there?
Yes the right man certainly can.
The right man + the right woman can conquer their world together.
They will thrive and live unbound in their love.
They will be healthy physically, emotionally, sexually, financially and spiritually.
Unfortunately it is my opinion from my over two decades of working with couples that the harsh reality is that about 85% of unions are not soul based but need based.
And it shows my dear queen in your face.
In your eyes.
In your body.
In how you speak of yourself.
In how you show up in your life.
I love you beautiful.
You are worthy of a king that is worthy of you.
But you have to first want to find him and then be willing to lay down your armour.
Loving you from 18 pounds lighter, radiance in my face and eyes, a good night’s sleep in my mans arms and lovin’ the skin I am in with a surrendered heart to my King 👑
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Queens let’s chat about getting you back into your rightful throne.
Based in that beautiful heart center, let me show you the steps to putting down the armour with your soulmate or how to call in your soulmate if that’s where you are at and how to fully become embodied in love and orgasm today.