🌹MY MAN IS BEAUTIFUL AND I TELL HIM ALL THE TIME…🌹
I recall the first time I told my man that he was beautiful, he looked at me and cocked his head to the side and said, “Huh?” with a smirk on his face of love as he allowed himself to absorb what I had said.
I just looked at him softly and said it again,
“You are beautiful.”
With the second time his eyes became glossy,
his skin started to radiate a golden glow,
there was a light that came from him,
that was there but was expanded as he felt the love between us and the love in his own heart that he constituted for love that he had for me.
And true as that was, this love that was bringing forth emotion of great mass to his eyes as I could watch his heart flutter and stir with his desire and passion, this love was more for himself than for me.
It is his love of himself that allows him to love me so deeply.
It is his acceptance of self that allows him to accept me fully.
It is his desire for health, for stability, and alignment in life, with soul and source that allows him to achieve these things with me and co-create a mature unconditional loving relationship like none I have ever experienced before.
It is his passion to live, to embrace all of life and enjoy its sweetest delicate moments that allows him to see those moments that are often missed in relationships in our commitment to each other.
👊👊👊HE LEADS. 👊👊👊
He leads our relationship just as if we were on the dance floor of life.
For you see, the feminine cannot lead.
The feminine in our greatest power must flow,
must be fluid and able to twirt through life in creativity.
Our purpose at our core as women in creation.
We are master creators.
Master manifestors.
Life births through us. 👼
And with it all the blessings that a sacred union can ever hope for.
But these blessings are not possible if the masculine is not certain in who he is at his core nor what his direction is.
I relate a lot to the dance floor.
💃Especially ballroom dancing. 💃
I believe that any woman that believes that she should be leading the relationship and is irritated at her man being the leader needs to do a few things…
👉Ask herself why she is with him if she does not support his agenda?
👉Ask herself if she trusts him and if not why?
👉 Inquire deeper to find out within herself who she believes should hold the greatest power in the relationship?
👉Ask herself if she wants to co-create the relationship and if so what does that actually look and feel like to her?
🌹🌹🌹 And depending on what she comes up with from these prompts, if she wants to make the relationship last forever and go deeper in love and trust, then to ask her man to go ballroom dancing or take lessons. 🌹🌹🌹
A few years back I was taking ballroom dancing,
and I was shocked at how horrible a lead so many men were.
It was quite sad in truth.
As I danced (and mind you I am far from a good dancer in my opinion) I noticed that many men would be too soft with me. They were scared almost to really take the lead and be firm in their stance. They could not hold the container nor pull me back into them. Causing my flow to be greatly disrupted.
I found that I was stumbling, missing many dance positions, did not feel safe to sway and did not feel held in the chasses.
AND THERE WAS ABSOLUTELY NO EFFING WAY THAT I COULD SURRENDER TO THESE MEN DIPPING ME !
Why?
Simple….
I could not trust them.
A strong feminine cannot truly lean and trust a weak masculine.
In order for a woman to surrender her heart to man she must trust him and trust in his leadership or she will not be able to surrender.
TRUST COMES FROM RESPECT.
It is based in respect that it is.
And who can respect wishy-washy?
Well most certainly not the feminine.
Many women attempt to “fall” for these soft men,
but they do so because they themselves are dominant in the masculine and all relationships depend on polarities.
Someone must be true north and someone must be true south.
Masculine and feminine.
Yin and yang.
Often in modern day relationships, we see more the feminine acting in the leadership role and wondering why they are so harsh, lost, discontented, aloof and unorgasmic.
This happens because their man is soft.
he cannot lead because he himself does not know how,
is afraid to step up and do so,
AND because often she will not allow him to.
Believing that by handing over the leadership reigns to her man that she gives up power instead of understanding the harmonic balance of yin and yang and how this is co-creation of their relationship where they each support one another through their own unique organic strengths as man and woman.
A man who can lead is beautiful
A man that can feel into his heart and lead from this space is radiant.
When I look into the eyes of my man and I see all his love for himself,
for me and our life that we build each day together,
I marvel at his brilliance.
He allows me to feel how deeply he wants to be with me.
How intensely he wants the best for our life, our union.
He shows me in his look of surrender to me through his leadership that I can trust him, he is certain in his boundaries, his direction is clear and he knows what he wants.
I can trust this.
I can trust him because he is this strong leader.
And he acts out of a deep divine love that he lets me see in tender moments when his heart erupts with great intensity.
I can trust him, because I choose to surrender to his leadership and let him conquer me so that we can rule our world together.
He chose me for this very reason.
And I him.
I ask you today, reader of this page…
Are you ready to surrender to love and step away from the blindness based in fear of losing power by uniting with your soulmate?
Will you keep fighting to me the masculine my sweet woman and wake each morning wanting to ravished but scared of losing your power in allowing it to happen?
If you are a woman who wants depth, connection, commitment and that soulmate union but has not found it and fears losing herself in the wrong man, then reach out to me beautiful..
Let’s do the deep dive into who you are and what you want so that you can once and for all align and call in the man of your dreams.
Message me today.
As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”