How do you define your reality?
Many years ago I was attending a study group consistently focused on the technology of the soul.
In my study, I was consistently asked to witness my ego,
to see my shadow side and to know that I could never destroy it. That it was going to grow and expand side by side to my light, to my soul.
It was revealed to me in this four year in depth training that all of my suffering was by my choice. That I could let my ego feel the pain and recognize it as such,
or I could have soul damage and wounding by not letting my soul shine and speak its truth.
Now this may be a difficult conversation for some to understand. And this particular musing is not going to go into depth on it as I would do with a private client of mine,
However, the point that I wish to share with you here is one of great importance if you are among the many in the world who crave for a better life.
We get to choose.
The bible referred to this as free will.
And what is meant by this is that we have the creative ability, the power to define our reality through our will.
To define our purpose through our will means to focus our desire.
To understand that we are the co-creator of the life that we are living and that our consciousness and perspective on our life experience is what creates it.
The life that you are living right now,
did not occur right now.
It was created by the thoughts you have been thinking,
and your feelings toward those thoughts.
The pictures that you have been day dreaming or day nightmaring about.
Your reality has been manifested by your focus.
By your will.
And here is where the tough shiz happens.
It’s the reality check about your reality.
If you want to have a flowing, life based in ease,
in beauty, and love.
Where you are not attracting the drastic contrasting situations and experiences, but instead perhaps work out your contracting visions quickly with a thought or inner conversation that you let go of quickly,
then you MUST get real about who is creating your reality.
So back to the question of today.
How do you define your reality?
If I were to ask you to list three to five words or sentences that define your reality what would you say?
Perhaps you should take a moment right now to jot those down. And once you have them in writing, in front of your face where you cannot argue what your words are,
I want you to ask if this reality that you are defining is:
👉 Real – are you living it now. Are you feeling it at your core if it is not currently manifest.
👉Is this reality supportive of your best life.
👉your truth and beliefs or someone else’s.
A Lot of the time we lie to ourselves.
We look at inquiry like what I have given you here today,
and we know what we “should” be answering and so because we view it as a test,
and everyone wants to do good on the test,
we answer what we know or think the “right” responses are instead of what our truth is.
And here is how you can tell if you are doing this.
Look at what is showing up in your world consistently.
If what you are writing and what you have showing up are polar different,
then guess what?
It’s time for a REALITY CHECK,
because the last one you did was not real.
You were telling fibs to yourself love,
because it hurt.
It hurt to see your truth. It hurt to see the brutalities that you may have been painting for yourself.
It hurt that what is showing up is not as bad as what you keep painting and you just don’t feel worthy of a good life so you gotta create some drama,
so you paint some tales in your head about struggle.
Perhaps, you have a bunch of people in your life that are struggling and you just don’t fit in with them,
so you shrink yourself and make up a shitty tale to match,
to fit in.
Not realizing that if you keep telling yourself these crap tales that you will over time start to believe them at a core level and manifest them.
Or….
Maybe you are painting a beautiful picture,
one where you have the love,
the money,
the health and opportunities that you want,
but what keeps showing up is nothing of the sort.
And you wonder why.
And the why is simple luv,
You don’t believe that you are worthy of the pictures and statements that you are creating.
And what you have materializing is what you believe you are worthy of.
This is that shadow self that I was speaking of earlier,
this is where we have to let ourselves feel the pain,
but let it be held by our ego’s.
That simply means to step out of the comfort of doing what you always do which is, make excuses and come up with reasons,
and in turn have the will to move toward what you want for.
This will require you to consistently witness your ego,
witness your fear,
witness your desire to control,
witness your foul concepts of self and others,
watch the words that you speak and that you chatter on with in your head and how they make you feel,
and consistently ask yourself if it is true or not.
You must be willing to call yourself out of the darkness and into the light.
And it is going to hurt like a motherf-cker luv.
It is.
But you are worth it.
Your other choice is to let your soul suffer and carry with it the wounds of not living the life that you were called to live,
to continue to shrink yourself,
no matter the reason,
and to never taste the glory that you were born to enjoy.
How do you define your reality?
And As Always,
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You were born worthy of so much more than what you are allowing right now.
It is time that you say YES to you.
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