👊👊🌹5 Secret Turn-Ons To Seduce A High Quality Man🌹👊👊
Last night over dinner I looked at my man and asked him,
“What have I done differently than other women that makes you want to commit so deeply and go all in with me?”🤔
He responded with, “So much.”
And then I began to think about it.
I thought of how just this last week he and I were in Half Price Books looking for Viktor Frankl’s book, Man’s Search for Meaning, when we found ourselves drifting up and down the psychology, spiritual, health, finance and self-growth aisles. Inquiring with each other what we had explored in our past. Having read so many of the same books or similar minds we found ourselves once again connecting and understanding each other’s views and why we mirror one another in so many ways.
As I looked at this tiny moment from last week I realized that THIS was just it…
👉🤯WE ARE BOTH ATTRACTED TO THE MIRROR.👈😍
That mirror being that we match each other on so many levels.
It is far past our attraction to one another’s physical or the chemistry that we certainly have.
Our lives have brought us through multiple relationships in our past that taught each of us what we valued and what we did not desire in a partnership. Which is often the case as we emotionally mature through our lives.
You see often in relationships we find ourselves calling in the opposite of what we want and we cannot figure out 👉WHY👈?
It has to be like this.
As long as we resist doing the inner work and remain emotionally immature, focused on only “me” and being right, a victim to life in essence and not taking responsibility for our emotions and the events in our lives then we MUST call in the opposite of what we desire and want so that we can enhance our clarity and build up our emotional maturity.
As we mature in the heart and mind and do the inner work to connect us deeper to our soul we start to find different attributes attractive then what we use too.
Beauty changes in our eyes. 🌹
The other day when we were walking around the bookstore chatting about our reading history and thoughts on topics, one of the books that popped out on the shelves was, “The Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz.” We have both read it and it bears with it one of the sexiest things a woman can do to turn-on a man and get him to think long term about her.
💋💃🔥CONSISTENCY – This really just always comes back to actions match words and you are consistent about what you say, how you think and the way you act. The majority of people ( male and female) have challenges around this vital ingredient to building a lasting relationship because they suffer from the belief or thinking of:
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’m not likable or lovable.”
THIS very thought process makes it difficult for the majority of people to be, as The Four Agreements puts it, impeccable with their word.
👊Yet this single thing is sexy AF when a man or woman portrays it!
💋💃🔥BEING A MF GROWN UP! – Adulting has a heck of a lot more to do with how we play with others then with paying bills and holding a job. Although these things are vitally needed as well, in the land of the heart and emotional maturity, adulting has more to do with 👉HOW WE FIGHT👈.
It’s called conflict resolution.
And the vast majority of people operate from the land of, “I am right, you are wrong.” This is all based in ego and again a need to be validated by another in some fashion.
👊What’s ever so attractive is a person who can be an actual grown up and listen as well as accept that the other party’s point is true for them.
When both parties can do this for each other you can communicate from a higher vibration based in love and a desire to find resolution versus being right and having the other agree that you are right.
There is nothing worse than to find yourself in a mis-communication or some form of friction with your partner and have them tell you that YOU are misconstruing things or are wrong in how you remember it, see it or feel about it. This only builds walls between the two of you, not bridges.
Being able to see that others’ views and feelings are just where they are and that you can agree to disagree because you are individuals with different takes is highly seductive and attractive in looking at a lifelong mate.
Being a MF Grown Up is NOT about being right and maintaining the friction until the other person caves to your way of seeing or feeling about something. That is not love based nor emotional maturity. Finding resolution in the relationship is however.
💋💃🔥 EASY TO BE A ROUND- No one enjoys being around someone who has a stick up their booty. It’s simple, friendliness, authentic friendliness not that sugar coated fake stuff is a turn-on.
When a person is uptight, anxious, scared of their own shadow and aquard about doing life and relating it reveals the wounds that they have not yet conquered and dealt with.
👉The energy we portray says everything about our inner scape.
If you are a woman (or a man) who “thinks” they are easy to get along with, has a big heart but no one accepts it, calls yourself friendly but when you are trying to do a relationship you find yourself getting the opposite of what you want and desire?
Look no further than the wounds that you bare still and keep coming back too.
You know what they are.
It’s what holds your bitterness, your anger, your pity party, your envy and makes you feel insecure.
Want to authentically be friendly and easy going, let go of that high maintenance attitude… then deal with your inner BS.
Until you do this you will continue to feel like no one appreciates your heart and intentions, cares or values what you have to offer. That jaded view will hold you back from fully embracing your confidence, your own self-love and acceptance and will make your childish attempts at being seductive, attractive and turned-on to life empty and laughable.
👊People who authentically smile from within and love life, feel good in their own skin are attractive AF!
💋💃🔥BRING JOY NOT DRAMA – #1 desire of men and what the vast majority will put on their dating profile.
“Looking for a drama free woman.”
A high quality man (meaning an emotionally mature man) knows that he is not responsible for you emotionally. 🤯🤯🤯
And he finds it DAMN Sexy when you get this too!
He is not wanting you to babysit him or mother him and he does not want to have to take care of you in this fashion either.
This is an extreme level of neediness A.K.A High Maintenance that emotionally mature men don’t find attractive.
He wants you to know that you are beautiful, powerful, radiant, sexy AF, a queen without him. If he is what validates these things for you then YOU ARE NOT THEM!!!👊
And you will jot have joy streaming from your soul.
Drama happens in life.
It happens to all of us.
What a high value man is looking for in a lifelong partnership and love is a woman who does not look at how she can create it but instead how much joy she can bring into life with or without him and this joy for her life also manifests into her making his heart smile by just being her.
💋💃🔥HEALTHY LIFESTYLE =SEXY AF! – Anyone who says that the physical does not matter is blowing smoke up your booty. We are all human and our bodies matter and anyone who counts themselves as being self-loving, accepting and high vibe that is not taking care of their temple is full of malarkey, to say the least.
👊Healthy eating, exercise, mindset, taking care of self and wanting to look good, feel good is sexy AF!
A high value man values this in himself and wants it in his partner as well.
Life is always about investment.
And we each get to choose where we invest.
Mumford and Sons has a great song “Awaken My Soul” where they have one of my favorite lyrics, “Where you invest your love, your invest your life.”
As with anything, whatever we choose to water grows.
People who choose to invest their love in health of all arenas live longer, are less sickly, have more stmina for life and sex, have healthier moods, live a more harmonic balalnced life and view things from a bigger picture mindset.
Those who make up the excuse of “I don’t have the time, energy, money.” DO NOT VALUE themselves nor life and will never hold a mate that values these things.
🔥🔥🔥I get turned-on like no other watching my man work out, eat a healthy meal and/or check himself out in the mirror as to how his arms or abs are looking in a shirt. His pleasure and care for himself shows that he values health and reveals itself in ALL other areas as well. 👈🤯🔥
So you say that you want 👉High Value Man👈 yet you yourself beautiful are not value the true jewels of life and relationship!🤯
You are still getting caught up in the immature focus points that will only ever lead you to more lessons being offered and suffering from them.
Become the 💃High Value Woman💃 that mirrors the man you want for and he will be called into your life with ease as if over night.
👉Want to learn the full list of secrets to manifesting your soulmate?
👉Ready to stop accepting less than what you are worthy of?
👉Sick and tired of letting your wounds hold back the love, sex, money and joy that you feel is yours in your gut?
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