UNICORN & SNOWFLAKE MEN – WHAT WOMEN THINK THEY WANT, BUT WON’T RESPECT.
And that is what it all comes down to.
Maybe I am a bad, bad, girl who just is not consciousness enough or done as deep of a dive as I need into my own inner work to be able to respect, surrender and thus really unite in love with one of these sacred space holding, cacao ceremony, “spiritual” dudes who is what we can call the modern gentlemen.
The nice guy.
The guy that “respects” (by kissing her booty and letting her be the man) a woman and let’s her be powerful because he knows that we are all equal.
Lordy, let’s just f-cking get real here.
Ladies and unicorn snowflake, woke divine masculine men….
WE ARE NOT ALL EQUAL!
Women are powerful.
And should be accepted as such.
But men are powerful too…
And should be accepted as such.
However, we are powerful in different ways.
Today’s world is emasculating men.
And men are not happy or healthy because of this depolarization.
Women are far from happy and emotionally drained because of it.
Yesterday I wrote some on this topic, focused on how we women want a sensitive man but only sensitive to what we want him to be. This epidemic of conscious, woke, divine real men that is turning our men into something that we women cannot respect nor trust. Which stirred quite the convo between my man and I. This morning while brushing our teeth and getting ready for the day he looks at me and says, “You know I just recently learned that women like you want a masculine man. I have looked at what I see as a strong woman and been frustrated. Believing that a strong, conscious woman who knows herself appears to want one of these unicorn “woke” men who always smiles, has the right things to say and keeps his masculine primal at bay. I can do the yoga. I can meditate. I can do my own inner work. I can be conscious. But I cannot put down my primal instinct and I did not believe that I could be my primal self and have my warrior queen, too.”
Linda Liv Doktar, I guess was in the same mood as myself yesterday, because my guy then asked me, “did you see what Linda posted?”
Nope, I was caught up with my private clients yesterday and some self-care things, plus rushing back to my man.
Well, I read Linda’s post and I was laughing while saying, “Yes! – Yes! -Yes!”
A woman who desires a primal man.
Gets what is required for us powerful warrior queens who are always turned on, activated in life, hustling in our self-made success stories and keeping harmony and balance to our full and thriving lives. That sort of woman cannot hang with the blokes who want to kiss our a*ses.
My sun rises and sets in my man’s hands because he is not afraid to man-handle me.
Meaning he knows how to stand in my fire.
He knows how to lead me.
He is not fearful of me.
He let’s me feel him fully in his energy, his thoughts, his feelings.
And of course in the bedroom.
He does not hide his primal, protective, fierce nature from me.
And that makes me weak in the knees.
Much like Linda said in her share, “I want to be dominated and told what to do.”
Matter a fact, I need that for my own well-being and ability to surrender my deepest self to life and to my man. A woman simply cannot surrender her deepest self however to a man that is wishy washy, wearing the best societal mask of the moment and trying to say all the “right” things. I need to know that I can trust my man to be honest with me.
I need to see that he is not afraid to take initiative and set a direction.
I need to know that he trusts his own words and actions.
And I require a man who knows how to dominate me in his love, protection, primal energy and leadership.
So he better f-cking know who he is and where he is going in life.
Or I will not follow.
I will not respect.
I will not trust.
And he will not hold my heart.
I have been in all too many relationships with these men who are “woke” who are “sensitive to the feminine” and that’s as far as they made it with me.
Some sort of relationship.
I also felt the need to set them in their place about the reality that they would NEVER have a partnership with me.
I knew from the first moments that I could not respect them to the level required for me to become their life partner and give myself over to them. I could not trust their “sweet” ways to hold me safe and lead with certainty. I knew I could drop them to their knees with my own dominance and make them crumble if I wanted.
That’s not leadership.
And you know what?
In studies it has been shown that 74% of men would rather be alone in their lives instead of feeling disrespected.
This is because to a man, a primal man who is on purpose and is not fearful of his own energy or his woman, he views respect and love as equal. They are the same and you cannot have one without the other.
THIS is why men are so powerfully attracted to some women, will do anything for these women, and commit to her fully. When a woman knows how to trigger feelings of respect and admiration in her man, he will surrender his heart to her.
So many women however, have no clue how to make use of the principle of respect to create this unfair advantage in making themselves irresistibly attractive and commitment worthy to the right men.
Thus creating the space for repetitive heartbreak and suffering when it comes to love.
Now I could go on and on about this topic, and most likely will keep writing on it over time, but for today let me be very clear with you lovies….
If you are a woman who wants to feel safe in her relationship.
Wants to stop questioning if her guy is really into her or if he loves you.
Wants to know that he wants and will commit to you.
Wants to rope the moon for you as well as ravish you in every way you desire.
And wants to stop your fear of when he will leave…
Then hear me now…
Get the consulting needed on the fine art of respect.
Through respect we women can seduce, open and commit the right man to us.
He will not be the man that is depolarized to be more feminine than masculine.
You will have to actually want his masculine and see how you as a strong woman who is always taking care of business needs his strength to get you out of your head and fully embodied into who you are in heart, soul and sex. But once you get a taste of the yumminess of what this primal masculine does for you and how he supports with his rock solid love, respect and honor of not just you, but himself and the partnership you will scratch your head in bewilderment of why you chose to spend all those years ditzing around with men who have no clue how to lead the feminine.
And are not worthy of your warrior queen heart and soul.
Want to learn the secrets of becoming a seductress through learning the art of respect with a primal man?
Are you tired of thinking your relationship with a guy is going really great only to have him grow cold and distant overnight and ghost you?
Tired of the endless cycle of heartbreak and questioning why you cannot find a man who is trustworthy and committed?
That’s what I helped countless beautiful women such as yourself do over the last almost two decades. Find their soulmate!
And it’s now your time, don’t you agree?
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