WHO DOESN’T WANT TO WAKE UP IN LOVE?
It’s every girl’s dream right?
To wake up wrapped in the one’s arms that you just cannot get enough of.
That you find yourself just wanting to go deeper with, reveal all of yourself too.
This morning I rolled into my man’s arms and put my head on his chest, smiled, took a deep breath and just relaxed into him.
His presence of being, in his heart and how stable he is puts all my concerns and fears at bay.
His strength in who he is and in life, even in the chaos brings me peace and direction.
His smiling eye’s ignite my soul in love.
His warmth and touch, leads me into greater surrender.
His inquisitive nature confirms his desire to know me more and to see me in all my radiance.
So what allows me to lean into him?
To open myself up at these levels of not just my physical, sexual being but also to want to merge with him emotionally? Mentally? In confidence of all that is me?
How can a woman who has been through divorce, physical assault, rape and more trust the masculine with all her depths?
Over and over again, I hear women share how they love their husbands and boyfriends. That they believe that he is “the one.” However, then they speak of not being able to really be themselves. They hide. They mask. They fake it. They say that their orgasm is great, but that they have to use a vibrator to achieve it or that only through oral they gain it. They tell me how they could never say the truth of their fears and body image to their partner. They speak about how they cannot imagine ever being with anyone else but then say how he does not hear her, see her, understand.
She loves him, but he does not know how to touch her.
Not physically or sexually.
Not menatlly or emotionally.
He does not harbor a safe home for her.
So what makes a woman feel safe?
So safe with her man that she drops her armour and speaks her truth?
That she trusts that he will catch her without doubt?
Women want to feel:
And her walls only come down when she feels all three of these.
In today’s relationships, women may feel sexy at times.
Often they feel more like they must be sexy to get what they want, or that it is only their sex that will attract and commit a partner.
They do not truly feel sexy however, in their own skin because our culture has trained us that we are never enough and in the same too much. We women compare ourselves to all the things that the world deems beautiful, strong and desirable and often find ourselves falling short in more than one area.
Our uniqueness is overlooked by all including ourselves and so we have reached a space in time and society evolution where we are working hard to make uniqueness about being like everyone else. There are no more winners and losers, no more acceptance that we are not all created equal. In our pursuit to have fairness and kindness, acceptance for all, we have also lost the gift of uniqueness. We see this even in our intimate relationships, where people no longer want to “claim each other” because we have decided that marriage and commitment equal control and limiting each other. But what we are actually saying is, “ I can take you or leave you, no wow factor here, nothing special or unique.”
Both men and women at our core want to be desired and not just for our sex, but for who we are as individuals. We want our partners to desire our essence and love us fully. Accept us as we are and see our radiance. Yet this radiance can only truly be seen if we embrace our uniqueness and stop making it unkind to know that we are different and not created equal.
Safety is primary to the femine to be able to drop down and trust in life, in her relationship, in her sexing, in her emotions and all that we do. Yet, there is limited safety when we are attempting to be and do everything without the support of anyone else, especially a partner. There is zero safety in today’s world as we overload ourselves with surpressnets and hormone `balancers” so that we can mask our truth and not address the true nature of any problem. As long as we continue to not trust our intuition, our critical thinking or what we are witnessing in our manifestation nor take responsibility for the lives that we are creating, we will not feel safe. Safety from the masculine comes secondary to how we women trust ourselves.
We can not trust the man that we are with if we do not trust our judgements and feelings. If we do not truly know who we are and what our boundaries and non-negotiables are. If we can speak up and let our vulnerability be heard.
To wake up in love, means that we are waking up in love with the lives that we have manifested.
Owning who we are as women.
To wake up in gratitude of being wrapped in the arms of our partner, who supports us, cherishes us, respects us and loves us fully just for being us, means that we have trusted the power of our manifestation to call in the sort of masculine who knows himself too at this level and is worthy of our trust, respect and heart.
This man will on;y come to us when we find this space inside of ourselves.
When we have learned to love all of our shadows and no longer stand in victimhood, but in queenhood.
This is how we find our true soulmate.
This Is how we fall in love with life.
Every moment of it, even the cloudy days.
This Is how we wake up in love every day.
It requires your heart and desire to take the steps inward and go on the great’s adventure of your life though.
It requires you to want that love more than anything else.
It requires you to have the courage to meet the person that you have been searching for all these years…
It requires you to find you.
Are you ready my love?
Walk with me.
Let’s adventure together and discover you.
Beautiful, magical, powerful, sexy, unique, full of appreciation, trust and creativity.
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“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
Helping dynamite powerful women like yourself discover love and fulfilment is what my passion is. Over the last two decades I have worked with hundreds of women such as yourself to call in their soulmate by aligning to their truth. I have guided countless couples not to just rekindle a love that they thought was lost, but to create an empowered turned on and fully aligned partnership based in love with 8 simple steps. If you are a woman who is looking for happiness, love and abundance in life and is sick and tired of just getting by, reach out to me for a FREE Clarity Call today where we will define exactly what is holding you back, what you are wanting to call in and the next best steps to achieve your desired life. Message me to set up your FREE Clarity Call today.