THE FUTURE IS ALWAYS BRIGHT…. NO MATTER THE SHADOW OF THE MOUNTAIN.
Recently my life partner and I drove up to Pikes Peak in Colorado together. It was bitter cold out, the fresh snow lay everywhere. People flocked to sled and enjoy snow ball fights.
The crisp winter wind felt amazing on my flesh as I stood there looking out over the valley that lay at the base of the peak.
I recall at one moment, standing with my partner’s arms around me. We looked out at the vastness before us,
and I could feel the message of the universe in that moment.
There we were, in the shadow of Pikes Peak, a great mountain blocking the rays of the warm sun, a crisp snowy breeze blowing around us, and we felt limitless in that space.
We felt grounded.
Stroung.
and in love with life.
Clarity in what we wanted and the path that we had chosen together was our guiding light.
Just like the miles that stretched out in front of this mountain were sunstruck, warm and bright, so was our future.
And I was reminded…
That you cannot always pre-map out the journey.
Often great things come unexpected.
However,
YOU WILL ALWAYS GET WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS YOURS.
If you believe that your possibilities are limitless,
then they are.
If you believe that you are surrounded and held in love,
then you are.
If you believe that you can live a life of abundance, adventure and joy,
then you can.
The problem is that so often we choose to own our worst nightmares.
We choose to focus in on what we don’t have and accept it as our reality,
we purchase that for our life destination and journey instead of what we claim that we hunger for at our souls level.
And THIS REALITY IS SO THEN.
You may say that you did not plan for all the shit to happen,
that its not in your plan or picture to stand there without a great love in your life,
or to believe that you always lose in love.
You may claim that its not in your agenda to create financial destruction,
the loss of house and home,
divorce, strife and health issues,
but honey, the reality is that you are looking for it.
This time of Covid has proven to me just how many people leap at the opportunity to jump into their victim status,
I see so many people wanting to test positive for the Rona,
saying,
” I am sick. I must have the Rone.”
or blaming the economy because of critical times for their financial pictures,
their relationship stress.
Their “inability” to get out and do things,
for their weight gain, poor eating and sluggish habits.
Well if your hidden agenda is to be a victim,
then guess what luv,
YOU WILL BE A MF VICTIM.
And you will stay in the shadow of life,
in the shadow of all those who choose differently.
You will stand there,
and be a spectator to others thriving,
because you planned to be limited by life.
YOU EXPECT TO BE LIMITED.
And you will only ever get as far as you plan.
Or you could open up those plans to the possibilities that YOU ARE IN FACT LIMITLESS.
Unless, that scares you too much, of course.
Because that might require you to step out of the herd,
and grow a pair.
That might demand of you to go digging deeper inside yourself then you have ever gone before.
That might require you to look good and hard at your inner demons ,
those thoughts, fears, desires, and opinions,
that are holding you the f-ck back.
Now granted you can continue down that path you are on,
you can plot it out,
step by step,
and you can prepare for the worst case scenarios in every which way possible,
and you can stand guard.
Pick your MF armour up and be ready to battle life at every perceived turn,
and sure that might not be bad,
if your goal in life is to survive it long enough to die anyway,
and look back at a empty path,
where you retreated and warred with anything that caused you to expand.
With anything that asked you to trust in your heart and soul.
That required you to have it to leap and open your wings.
Sure you can get by like that.
The majority of folks do.
But thats all they do,
GET BY.
And sit there in the land of spectatorship.
Wishing for something more.
Questioning why others always have, do and create.
Not feeling fulfilled.
Seen.
Truly loved.
Or…
You could do something a bit differently and step out of the crowd.
You could realize that the valley before you lit up with all that radiant glory,
is yours for the taking.
It will just require you to have a higher perspective on life.
To tap the f-ck into your truth,
and to have enough courage to say F-ck Yes! To You.
This Is not average and ordinary living.
No.
What I am proclaiming and believe is accessible and our right as humans is to live limitless and THRIVE.
That we each are worthy beyond measure of just that.
That our dreams and desires are set before us not to tease us,
not to cause us disappointment in life and self,
or point out our lack or inabilities,
but instead they are put there,
FOR THE TAKING.
They are there because they are rightfully ours to begin with.
They WILL REQUIRE us to become a match to them.
They will require that we step out of our comfort zones.
They will require that we expand,
that we open ourselves up to our limitlessness.
They will without a doubt require that WE KNOW WHAT WE WANT.
And the courage to gain all that we want and feel that depth and level of fulfillment,
well it will only come when we stop standing in the way of our own sunshine as Waldo Emerson said.
Because the reality is….
That most of the mountains that we believe are blocking our path and our great plans,
are only us standing in our own sunshine.
Time to set yourself free baby.
Time to know your truth.
And As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
Want to make 2021 your year to be limitless?
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