You have to get caught in the FEELS!!!

It is evident that we as a society are fearful of the FEELS.
We make jokes to try and offset our discomfort with the FEELS.
We get very clear on messaging to someone that we are NOT in the FEELS, that they are “just” friends.
We take drugs and fill our minds with things that help us to avoid the the FEELS.
We simply are uncomfortable and scared when it comes to the FEELS.

However the reality is that you have to get caught in the FEELS in order to really get all from life that life has to offer.

If you are not emotional about the things that you want then you are not really connected to them.
This is a double edged sword though,
and that is why we are so damn fearful of the FEELS.
We have a nasty little habit of thinking it okay to feel negative,
to feel low vibe,
to think of everything that “could” go wrong with something,
because this is just being smart and realistic.
It is planning for the future and not getting our hopes to high.
But when it comes to getting into the feel good feels,
well that is not something that a smart person should do.

Such bullshit!
It’s rubbish.

Really it is.
If you focus on the negative feels,
then what you are going to create in your life is more negative feels experiences.
How can you not?

If I ran around all day, scared of all the risks that I come up against and just focused on bad sh*t happening then doesn’t it make sense that I increase my odds of it happening, and while I am increasing my odds I am also completely missing out on all the good stuff around me.
The beauty.
The blessing.
The opportunities.
The life that is asking to be seen.

And for what?
So that one can focus on what makes one feel yuck.
Suffering.

This may seem crazy.
And in my mind it is,
even though I am guilty all to often for my taste of it anyway.
Why, why, why would we ever sit around and ponder our suffering?
If we truly have the choice to live in happiness or suffering,
if our thoughts really do impact our world in a massive way,
if thoughts produce emotions,
then WHY in the world would any of us CHOOSE to focus on the negative.
On the drama, the trauma, the pain, the not having.
The suffering?

We do it because there is a mass program running in our culture that says that normal is to live like this.

Someone calls you and says how are you and you respond with, ” I am okay…” or ” Oh fine…” or, ” well this and this and this bad thing happened.”

Just turn on the news.
Look to media headlines.
Whats the focus?

Positive or negative.

We are a world society comfortable with not having.
Feeling safer in our suffering then in our bliss.
Sure we may bitch about it.
We may moan and say we want it to change.
If only we had a way.

But when given the simple solution of change your thoughts, change your life.
Get your FEELS focused on the good VIBES.
And get committed to that.

We balk at it.
We say yeah, but that’s too hard to track my thoughts, to control them.

We truly do not believe that we are powerful as f-ck manifestor’s.
Creators of our reality through our thoughts that lead to our FEELS.

And we think that the negative feels is normal.
Or that just masking them is a solution,
when in truth the negative feels are a road sign that we are out of alignment with our core.
Our truth or SOUL.

Did you get that?
When you are in a state of negative feels,
not only are you low VIBE,
low positive manifestation power,
and not going to call into your life what you want,
but you are also out of alignment with your SOUL.

Making the FEELS all the more important.

Good or bad, the FEELS are telling us about our truth.
The FEELS are communicating to us where we are at with our SOUL alignment and showing us what we can expect to call into our world if we FOCUS on the FEELS that we are supporting.

So the question for today is pretty simple beautiful.
The question is,

“What does your FEELS say about your SOUL alignment?”

and are you good with that?
If so F-cking AWESOME!

If not…
make a F-cking DECISION to CHANGE your focus NOW!

Remember your power.
Own what you are creating.
And decide to create what you actually want.

As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”

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